Outward Appearance

Outward appearances are deceptive because it's not always what they seem to portray.When i go to stores with my friends or family i see a lot of deceptive people. I have seen moments when there's girls who are very pretty and have the best clothes on ,laughing and enjoying themselves with friends, and it may seem that their lives are almost perfect but they're not. Then the boyfriends shows up and you see the faces change. Every smile they had on turns into a sad frown. I can tell by the way they look at the floor the whole time their talking with him. The intimidation they give them to where they flinch with every little body movement their boyfriends make. You can see now that their lives are not as perfect as they seem to portray. We personally are concerned with some outer appearance because it's the way we judge the people we decide to talk too. I know that before we talk to someone sometimes we base it on their looks. If that person is dressed weirdly we don't take interest in starting a conversation with them. On the other hand when their is a cute boy/girl we don't think twice about meeting them. I think what we value in America is substantial because we know how to appreciate the things we have. Others money to me does not matter because i don't seek people because of their wealth but because of the way they treat me. I wouldn't care if i was sitting next to the poorest person on earth i am not the one that will judge their lifestyle.